Tuesday, February 23, 2021

A Heroic Birthday

It was six weeks late, but Everett got to enjoy the Avengers-themed Birthday Party he envisioned and helped execute. We're so proud of his contributions (both ideas and help), and thrilled we got to have some distanced social time.

Like Imogen's birthday party last fall, it was a breath of fresh air to see (masked) friendly faces and marvel at how our kids have grown. Was it a lot of work? Yes. Was it worth it? 100% Yes. Did we take enough pictures? Of course not.

Avengers... assemble! - February 20, 2021

We've witnessed and attended a handful of outdoor parties over the past year, and we're getting the swing of hosting. The first thing on our minds is everyone has a different level of comfort - and this can be tough to manage with toddlers. We were very clear with Everett and Imogen that if they took their masks off, they had to go inside, and luckily they didn't try to test us.

Without further ado, the activities that Everett insisted on, helped design, and / or helped prepare:

  • Superhero Scavenger Hunt - Mommy helped cut out circles, then Everett put character stickers on and helped layer the Con-Tact paper. Because Everett wanted to be able to do the finding, Mommy and Daddy did the hiding all around the front yard. There were 24 superheroes and villains to find. If you didn't want to do the hard work of finding, Everett was more than happy to run around and point them all out. Full disclosure - he stole this idea from a neighbor's party and has been talking about it for two months.
Captain America by Everett and Falcon by Imogen - February 20, 2021
  • Pin the Star on Cap's Shield - Similar to Immy's party, we put a blindfold and the sticky thing in each favor bag. Everett decided what he wanted to do (although we did try to dissuade him from pin the bird on Falcon...) and painted the Captain America. Mommy helped by sketching an outline and Grandma Fiorani made us the stars.
  • Superhero Stats Card - To measure guests' heroic abilities, we set up measurement marks for high jump, long jump, and a distance for timing speed. There was also a balance station (how long can you stand on one foot?) and an accuracy check (throw your bean bag at a target). Guests had a card and a pen in their bag to keep track of their performance. Everett's Superhero Name is Oarrowbird (Arrowbird, with a silent O at the front) and Imogen's is Rocket Raccoon.
Crayon manufacturing - February 6, 2021
  • Spiderman, Iron Man, and War Machine Crayons - We melted so many crayons. The kids helped breaking them up and filling up the silicone trays. The trays started breaking down so we had to stop... ohhhhh noooo :)
  • Hulk Smash! - Everett's favorite activity to do and encourage guests to do! Chris made a double sided punch board using green trifolds, purple tissue paper, Solo cups, and a circle cutter. Plus a LOT of tape. Instead of plastic toys destined for the garbage, we put fruit snacks or M&Ms inside for prizes. Everett was very opinionated on what stickers should decorate: Hulk (of course) and villains (Daddy's idea, Everett fully committed to it). The only downside was one smash per Hulk.
  • Infinity Stone Guessing Game - Non-branded would be, "how many Skittles are in this jar?" Both Everett and Imogen helped count Skittles as they went into the jar. Mommy did the decorations with color input (demands?) from Everett. Any guesses based on the photo?
  • Groot - We totally got the idea from this Avengers Party blog post. We didn't follow the directions exactly, and we used packing paper from Amazon and other deliveries over the course of a month. Chris was skeptical at first, but this ended up Elizabeth's favorite part of the party. It did not take long to make, Everett and Imogen had fun adding leaves, and we used twine to keep him from blowing away outside. When the party was over, the kids decided they wanted to keep Groot around a little longer to take more pictures with him (and they even brought other toys for the photo op).
Everett and Imogen both had a blast literally running around with friends they haven't seen in months. It wore Imogen out early and she crashed (but woke up before the party was over!), and Everett also started to fade towards the end. Five hours is a long time for a kids' party in normal times! We made it that long to try to spread out guests. We even had one guest come before official party time to avoid attending a "gathering" and another that had to come late because of an emergency earlier in the day. It happens, and we were easily able to roll with it. 

More Groot photos - February 21, 2021

The most stressful part of the whole endeavor was the rain overnight and during the morning - set up time was drastically condensed which put the adults on edge a bit. Luckily, the kids played (mostly) nice that morning. 

It isn't lost on us that this was Everett's last pre-kindergarten birthday. The number of parties where Mommy and Daddy get to invite their friends is coming to an end. We're savoring that, we're savoring the themes, the party games, the utter joy. 

What else happened in February?

As the months turn over and we look back to write these posts, it's always a bit of a shock to see how much happened in the past few weeks. Everett had "spirit week" at school, Valentine's Day, a visit to Happy Hollow, Elizabeth hit the 28 week mark, and Elizabeth and Chris hit the 14 year mark. A month full of love, to say the least!

Sports, Disney, Wacky Socks & Hair, PJs, and Valentine's Colors Day - February 8-12, 2021



Rugby ball, rugby face! - February 12, 2021

Valentine's surprise - a fort full of balloons! - February 14, 2021


President's Day at the Zoo - February 15, 2021

14 years - February 17, 2021

Dragonfly pose

Everett chose the heroes for his letters, and Grandma Fiorani delivered!


Saturday, January 30, 2021

A Big Birthday, and a Delayed Celebration

It's repetitive, it's basic, it is what it is. This month FLEW by.

In normal times, the end-of-year holiday blitz would be quickly followed with a birthday bash for Everett. Given the COVID-19 surge happening, we made a decision in early December that we were not doing that. We waited to see how January went and then make a decision from there. And Everett - who is now FIVE - has been very mature about the whole thing.

Everett the five-year-old - January 7, 2021

It can also rain a lot here in January, so an outdoor party is just tempting fate. On his first birthday party, there was a rain storm strong enough that many people canceled day-of due to unsafe road conditions.

Just some rain - January 22, 2021

On his "actual birthday" - we took the day off and had amazing family time. Bike ride, cupcakes, and Katamino while Immy napped.

In late October, Immy had her outdoor, socially-distanced birthday party. She got to see and wave at her friends, play outside all day, eat a cupcake, and have all kinds of Rapunzel stuff around for a couple weeks.

Everett was a fabulous host at that party, and since then he's been anxiously awaiting his turn. 

The delay meant that Everett could be much more involved in the planning. He is really digging both the brainstorming and getting some of the prep work done. 

Showing off his Thor LEGOs (thanks Uncle Graham & Aunt Sandy!) - January 24, 2021

In case there was any doubt, Avengers are the big winners right now. His Superhero party will focus mainly on the Avengers with a few Wonder Woman touches for good measure. 

As an example, he is art directing the "Pin the..." party game. We went through a lot of ideas and talked to Grandma Fiorani about what she could help us make. After many considerations (leaves on Groot, staff on Loki, hammer on Thor), we landed on "Pin the Star on Captain America's Shield." It doesn't roll off the tongue, but it will be fun. The special bonus is that Everett painted the Captain America that we will use! Imogen didn't want to be left out, so she helped paint Falcon for added decoration.


Why not just let it go? No adjusted party? Everett being so proactive and helpful is certainly the biggest push for us to go ahead and have a birthday party over a month late. Another big reason though, is the beastie on the way. Once she's born, we'll naturally be more restrictive with activities and interactions. This is both his chance - and our chance - to say hello in person to the people in our lives and get some of that delightful connection we are all missing so much. 

Happy New Year! - January 1, 2021










Thursday, December 31, 2020

To Brighter Days Ahead

No one could have predicted 2020. Not on a grand scale, and our little family couldn't have predicted what came our way either. It was not an easy year. We are grateful for our health, our employment, and our back yard. It absolutely could have been worse and we recognize that.

It could also have been a lot better.

Rather than write up all the things we're missing this year, we decided to focus on the joy this month. There is joy, and there is hope. 

Merry Christmas! - December 25, 2020

Mostly Unchanged Holiday Things

  • Elizabeth made and received ornaments through the Remembering Together Ornament Swap. It always feels good to create something for another loss family, and of course it's very special to get handmade ornaments celebrating Oberon.

  • Our Obie Xmas traditions were mostly "normal." Chris and Elizabeth took the day off work, we ate bug pancakes, we opened gifts, and we spent time together. 
Obie Xmas - December 9, 2020

  • Similarly, our big family holiday is Hogmanay, or New Year's Eve. It's also when Santa comes to see us, so it's a big deal. We made a plate for Santa and the reindeer, opened gifts, ate pancakes, watched the fireworks (remotely, and from an earlier time zone), and drank some bubbly. Happy New Year!
Santa came! - December 31, 2020

2020-Style Things

  • We try to attend the HAND's holiday craft night every year. Last year, Everett and Elizabeth went together and called it a "Mommy-Everett adventure." Everett remembered this unprompted, so we made sure to include him in this year's virtual event. Because it was on Zoom, that meant Chris and Imogen could participate too without totally messing up sleep schedules. A joyful bonus.
Making ornaments for Obie and ornaments just because - December 3, 2020
  • An annual tradition for us is celebrating Obie's big outing by going to Christmas in the Park and seeing Santa. This year was quite different as a drive through event, but we tried to enjoy it without dwelling too much on missed moments. The kids enjoyed it, we at least saw Santa, and the kids held Obie Bear and an Obie O for most of the drive. It was a sweet and comforting outing.
Obie O & Santa - December 9, 2020
  • The biggest disruption is we didn't fly to Michigan. We missed out on in-person family gatherings and catching up with dear friends. We miss watching our kids play with their cousins and friends' kids. We miss coffee dates and game nights. Handing out presents. All of it. Despite that, we know it was the right choice for us - to keep contacts low and stay away from major travel. 

Finding Other Joys

  • A lot more time off in a sort of "staycation" means we got more quality time in our little family unit. More walks (and bike rides) around the block, more exploring the neighborhood holiday displays, more crafts and science experiments, and another trip to Uvas Canyon.
Uvas Canyon County Park, Waterfall Loop Trail - December 22, 2020
  • Everett and Imogen are getting more into the holiday season preparations - from trimming the tree to making cards. Everett insisted on making cards and bookmarks for all of his Jr. K classmates, his teachers, and the kids in the other Jr. K class. Imogen tries to make a card (or three) for the same day care friend every couple days. We have to convince her to include others or try to distract her entirely because we are running low on cards!
Everett's first official holiday cards - December 2020
  • We had a Christmas-time visit with the SoCal Thoma Family. We don't typically get to see them at Christmas, so it was extra special to spend a few days in SoCal. It also meant our first trip down "the 5" with Everett and Imogen (which went pretty well, considering). The kids had a blast playing, making gingerbread houses, biking, reading together, and of course - opening presents. 
Cousins who dab... - December 27, 2020

Brighter Days Ahead

  • We're probably going to need a bigger tree. Everyone's ornament collection is growing, and our little 4-footer is unlikely to be able to fit any more additions.
  • There are going to be a lot of additions on and under the tree - because our clan is growing by one.

Our biggest news of the year is a little firefly joining the mix. More on all that later. For now, we just want to celebrate some new beginnings and cross our fingers for brighter days for all of us. Here's to 2021.

Remembering Together Swap Ornament 2020


The joy of MLP undies - December 9, 2020

Christmas in the Park, 2020 style - December 9, 2020

Cuddling Obie Bear at Christmas in the Park - December 9, 2020